How to Work on Irrational Thoughts
Rational Emotive Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (RECBT) helps individuals identify and challenge irrational beliefs that lead to emotional distress. One of the key frameworks used in RECBT is the A-B-C-D Model, which explains how thoughts, rather than events themselves, influence our emotions and behaviours.
The A-B-C-D Model Explained
- A – Activating Event:
This refers to the situation or experience that triggers a reaction. It can be an external event, a thought, a memory or even a feeling — related to the past, present or future. - B – Belief:
These are the personal interpretations, assumptions or meanings we attach to the activating event. Beliefs can be rational (realistic and flexible) or irrational (rigid and unrealistic). - C – Consequence:
This is the emotional or behavioural outcome that follows.- If the belief (B) is irrational, the consequence (C) is likely to be distressing or self-defeating.
- If the belief is rational, the consequence tends to be constructive and self-helping.
- D – Disputation:
This step involves challenging and questioning the irrational beliefs. By doing so, individuals learn to replace unrealistic thoughts with healthier, evidence-based perspectives.
Working Through the Process
Through RECBT, individuals learn to identify illogical, unrealistic and self-defeating interpretations and replace them with rational, balanced beliefs. This involves recognising that there is no solid evidence for rigid thoughts that include words like must, should, have to or need to.
A rational belief typically:
- Has strong evidence or realistic possibility (95–100%)
- Helps in problem-solving
- Uses words such as prefer to, wish, want or try my best to
- Focuses on what is within one’s control
- Includes a plan to cope if expectations are not met
If a belief doesn’t meet these criteria, it is likely to be irrational. Once identified, the irrational belief can be replaced with a rational one that aligns with reality and promotes emotional well-being.
Practising Rational Thinking
Clients can use tools such as spreadsheets or daily logs to regularly practice substituting irrational thoughts with rational ones. Over time, this consistent effort helps the brain adapt to thinking more logically and calmly.
During counselling sessions, clients learn that rational thinking is not the same as positive thinking. While positive thinking can sometimes be unrealistic, rational thinking is based on evidence, balance and practicality. It takes time and practice, but with consistent effort, individuals can significantly reduce irrational beliefs and improve emotional stability.
